• Ageing, beauty and oranges

    At work, there are a couple of older women that I really like. Martha-Lucia always greets me with enthusiasm. She always says she lives every day to the fullest because life is short and you just never know what happens. I often wonder what experiences stand behind those words. Then there’s Hannah, who is always so blunt and pragmatic. At…

  • Things That Bother Me

    At a party, an acquaintance says “aww, you two are so cute, are you together?” and while still in his arms, I answer “no, we’re just friends.” it’s August now and I’m blasting Taylor Swift on speaker while I eat ice cream in bed. A kid at the playground tells me she doesn’t like me and I ask why. “You’re…

  • Things That Make Me Go ‘Waaaah’

    My cousin started crying when she saw us outside of her AirBnb. She was in town for a few days with her family. We hadn’t seen each other for more than a decade. I was reminded that we had a bigger family, and I realized how caught up we were in our own lives that we had forgotten to keep…

  • Alone Time in Mid-July

    Yesterday, I was feeling quite zapped. It was a combination of prepping for a series of job interviews while going out six days within the week. I felt I needed some alone time to meander and really sit with the sadness that was bottling inside of me. I often say it’s hard to listen in on your intuition but it…